Matter of Friendship | Relationship Matters
We live in a world where we're more "connected" than ever, yet loneliness is at an all-time high. We text, scroll, and "like" each other's posts, but deep, real friendships? Those seem to be few are far between.
Have you ever been in an elevator packed with people, yet no one talks or even makes eye contact? That's a snapshot of how life can feel. Surrounded but alone. But God didn't create us for isolation—He created us for community.
The Bible is full of powerful friendships, but one of the best examples is David and Jonathan. Jonathan, the son of King Saul, was a strong, courageous leader and heir to the throne. David was a shepherd boy, a musician, and a warrior. They had every reason NOT to be friends—different backgrounds, different life paths—but they chose community anyway.
This friendship reminds us that: Friendships are intentional. They don't just happen—you have to take the first step. Proverbs 18:24 says, "A man who has friends must himself be friendly." Who in your life do you need to reach out to?
Friendships meet needs. In 1 Samuel 20:4, Jonathan tells David, "Whatever you want me to do, I'll do it for you." A true friend shows up—not just when it's easy, but when it's hard. Friendships encourage and strengthen. When David was at his lowest, Jonathan found him and encouraged him to stay strong in his faith (1 Samuel 23:16). That's the kind of friend we all need—and the kind of friend we should be.
We weren't made to do life alone, so do whatever you need to do to find and surround yourself with people! Shameless plug: We do have groups for that every Wednesday night at 7pm!
Pray With Us!
Thank You, Lord, for the sweet gift of friendship. Help us to be intentional in our relationships, to show up for each other, and to be the kind of friends who encourage and strengthen. Give us eyes to see those who need love and courage to take the first step. May we never forget that YOU are our greatest friend. Amen.
Let's Reflect:
Who in your life has been a "Jonathan"—someone who has encouraged and supported you? In what ways can you be more intentional about building strong friendships? How does the story of David and Jonathan challenge the way you view friendship?