Through the eight-session video-based group bible study, Love & War, John and Stasi Eldredge help you and your spouse take marriage to new levels through developing deeper intimacy and stepping into the great adventure God has waiting for you … together! There is a Participant Guide filled with helpful discussion starters, video overviews, a helpful Leader’s Guide and much more. If you would like to purchase the discussion guide, you can do that here. his class is designed for couples who are married or engaged to be married. A couple is defined as a male and female.